Stone by Stone, Life by Life:The Territory of Living

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2025-07-266 min read

The Territory of Possibility

In chess, every piece has a defined role and range. A pawn moves forward, a bishop cuts diagonally, a queen dominates with predetermined power. The game unfolds piece by piece, turn by turn, with known endgames and established patterns.

In Go, stones are neutral and how you place them defines their power. You can build, attack, defend, or bluff, all with the same black or white stones. Chess is linear: methodical, predictable in its structure. Go is exponential: freedom, flexibility, long-term positioning with short-term deception.

This fundamental difference mirrors something profound about life itself.


Territory vs. Pieces: Building Life's Chassis

The territory concept in Go reveals something chess cannot: the power of strategic flexibility. In Go, you don't just defend; you grow, influence, and bait. You must be aware of the whole board while setting stones that can either capture resources or generate them, building connections until territories become yours.

It resembles that ancient truth: you reap what you sow.

The territory in Go serves as the chassis of existence: your skills, social connections, physical health, and sense of purpose. Just like placing stones on the board, you give meaning to these areas through intention. You become both general and strategist simultaneously, operating in a realm that's fluid and abstract.

If you want to gain a better position, you can be clever about how to gain it by sacrificing a stone or something of yours to advance your overall position. Knowing what to let go of to achieve better positioning is a lesson I encounter constantly, whether in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, karate, dealing with people, or running a business.


The Art of Strategic Sacrifice

Go players constantly give up stones to gain better position. This isn't about loss; it's about strategic positioning for greater gain.

I encounter this principle across different domains. In Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, sometimes you give up a defensive position to create an opening for a submission. In karate, you might absorb a smaller strike to land a decisive blow. In business dealings, you might concede on minor points to secure major advantages. When dealing with people, you might let go of some relationships or let someone "win" a small argument to build trust for more important conversations.

Sacrifices are fundamentally necessary and have existed since the dawn of humanity. But Go teaches us the difference between random loss and strategic sacrifice. Every stone you give up should serve a purpose: gaining territory elsewhere, forcing your opponent into a weaker position, or setting up a larger strategic advantage.

The key is developing the ability to see beyond immediate loss to long-term gain. This requires what Go players call "reading" the board several moves ahead, understanding how current sacrifices will pay dividends in future positions.


A Strategic Framework Born from the Board

Through playing Go, I've developed a strategic framework that applies far beyond the game:

  1. 1-Target Clearly defining "who" and "what" your target is helps focus your strategy. Always remember to also think about who or what your opponent's target is, if applicable. Consider what the desired impact on the target should be, to ensure that the strategy aligns with broader goals.
  2. 2-Goal This should clarify the specific objectives you want to achieve concerning your target. The same goes for your opponent; anticipating their goals is better than being blind to them. It's essential to align these goals directly with the needs or characteristics of the target.
  3. 3-Resources Identify the necessary resources (time, money, skills, tools, etc.) that will support the achievement of your goals. What do you have at your disposal and what does your opponent have? Consider categorizing resources as tangible and intangible.
  4. 4-Context (Opportunities and Challenges) Understanding the context in which the strategy will be implemented is crucial. Opportunities are external factors you or your opponent can leverage, while challenges are obstacles that need to be addressed or turned into advantages.
  5. 5-Location (Environment) This is about determining the right setting or conditions needed to achieve your goals. It could be a physical location, a market environment, or even a digital space. Consider also the mental/cultural environment: what kind of culture or mindset is needed to support this strategy?
  6. 6-Why Choose It (3 Reasons) This is a critical reflection on the choices you've made. By identifying three key reasons, you can ensure that your decisions are well-grounded and align with your overall strategy. Make these reasons strategic by aligning them with your broader business or personal values, long-term vision, and the potential impact on your target.

How It All Connects

Your framework flows from defining the target to setting a goal and then identifying the necessary resources, context, and environment. The final step of asking "Why?" helps ensure that every decision is intentional and aligned with your overarching strategy.

Just like on the Go board, this framework works because it acknowledges both your position and your opponent's, your resources and theirs, your environment and the broader context in which you're operating.


Living Like a Go Player

Living like a Go player means embracing fluidity over rigidity. Unlike chess pieces with fixed roles, you get to decide what each "stone" in your life represents based on how and where you place it. Your skills, relationships, and resources aren't locked into predetermined functions. They gain meaning and power through your strategic intent.

This means being both general and strategist simultaneously. You're operating across multiple territories (career, health, relationships, personal growth) while maintaining awareness of the whole board. You're building connections between different areas of your life, setting up positions that can serve multiple purposes, and always thinking several moves ahead.

The aggressive, clever, sometimes defensive approach I take on the Go board translates directly to life strategy. Sometimes you need to be aggressive and take risks to secure important territory. Sometimes cleverness and indirect approaches work better than direct confrontation. And sometimes the wise move is defensive, consolidating your position before making your next advance.

Most importantly, Go teaches patience with the long game while maintaining tactical flexibility in the short term. You're building something larger than any individual move, but you're also ready to adapt when the board changes unexpectedly.


The Endless Game

Go masters know that no two games are identical. The 19x19 board offers more possible positions than there are atoms in the observable universe. This infinite complexity mirrors life itself: no formula guarantees success, no single strategy works in every situation.

What Go offers instead is a way of thinking. A framework for seeing patterns, understanding position, and making decisions that serve both immediate needs and long-term vision. The stones you place today create the territories you'll inhabit tomorrow.

In life, as in Go, mastery isn't about winning every battle. It's about understanding the flow of the game, reading the position clearly, and placing your stones with intention. Each decision becomes a stone on your personal board, contributing to the territory you're building, the influence you're wielding, and the legacy you're creating.

The game never truly ends. It only evolves, stone by stone, choice by choice, into the life you're strategically constructing.

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